Nicki's Reef

For my birthday, I asked my boyfriend to get me a purse. He said: no, you have too many already. And I said - but this one is really special. It is made out of recycled leather and it is handmade, and it has a bead and it is red and it has this supercool lining.


And he thought - well maybe that would be a good surprise and he got it for me. It is soooo lovely. Check it out here. Lori of Waterstone made it just for me (ok, she did not know that when she made it but anyways).


Now this week, Lori is giving away this wonderful clutch. I want it - so badly. You can enter it when you hop over to her blog and choose one of the ways to enter. But I still hope she picks me (I know I am selfish). If you don't win, buy one from her store, and believe me, you won't regret it.

No desasters happened on sunday, but the issues are boiling under the surface.

So we decided to keep busy and set up the sandbox for our baby girl. First Nick was digging a hole, then set some concrete tiles to make a foundation. Here is a picture after the sandbox was set.

And then another one once we filled it with sand....


Which created instant sand-happiness for the newest member of our family.


In the afternoon, we had to get out of the house and went to an event that confirmed that we are officially old. There is a castle close to our house and they had an afternoon outdoor dancing event (called Be-swinged - not sure if that makes sense in english). I just love jazz and swing, and when we arrived, there was a dance show going on. About 12 people were dancing Lindy Hop, dressed up like in the 20's and it was so cute. I was always dancing when I was younger, but I have some issues with one of my knees (basically the knee cap jumps out of the joint from time to time) - so I need to avoid to become too active :)

So we sat down and watched it. After the group was done, a band started playing swing, salsa, rumba, cha cha and so on, and couples from the audience would start to dance. It was just wonderful sitting in the park with the castle in the background, a cool breeze and this wonderful music. I wouldn't have even noticed, but it was true that about 80% of the people were over 55. Anyways - I really enjoyed it. Unfortunately I forgot my camera, so you have to use your imagination.

I am waiting for a person to come and repair our dishwasher this morning (Update: He was here and did not repair it since the repair would cost 400 Euro - which is more or less the cost of a new dishwasher). And I actually should be working right now and not blogging.....

On another note, my colleague's wife had a baby yesterday. His name is Anton (something I need to get used to, which is not quite easy). What a happy event in the middle of all this mess. Please can this be the start of the positive row of events?

I have a question for you - I showed some jewelry in my last two posts. One showed these super simple quick and dirty earrings (that I like, ok, but they are not special to me). And the one before showed this (in my mind) really really cool bracelet, that features one of Kelley Wenzel's Egg beads.

The bracelet post has 4 comments, and the earring post has 8 comments. Now here is my question to you: Do you like the earrings better or did you just miss the bracelet post because I posted them one right after the other?

I know this will probably always stay a mystery. But if you can clear this up, I'd be glad to hear your thoughts.

Something must have happened recently up there - a real negativ stellar constellation or something like a cosmic earthquake (would you call this moonquake or starquake?).

Fun aside, there have been so many negative news that happened during the past weeks, that I am kind of afraid of what might come next. Two of my blogland friends and one of my real life friends have lost a family member this week. During the love parade that took place in Duisburg (the city where I studied, about 50 km from here) last weekend 21 people died and about 500 got injured. Two other friends lost some loved pet family members. One of my friends is really sick. I would like to say sorry again for all of you that have lost someone precious. I think of you every day, and hope that you are not too sad.

Compared to that, the issues I am currently dealing with are minor, at least for now. Although they could turn into a major desaster, which really scares me.

So I am kind of in between, worried about the next desaster to happen, or waiting for the next cosmic earthquake that will fix everything again. Today there might have been a small sign of recovery. I had a horse when I was a kid. His name is Manolito. He is a black german pony. And today I found out that he is still alive. He must be about 36 years old right now which is really old for a horse. It makes me really happy.

I hope that this does not sound too silly, but it gives me hope that some nicer things are coming along our way.

Here is the list of random things I posted earlier today in response to Lorelei's RANDOM post:

: I hope it rains again tomorrow, fits my mood better.
: Why can I never say no to this b.... that is just nice whenever she needs something from me
: I hope that lawyer is capable of getting this case solved for us
: The above sounds like today is venting day
: I need to drown myself into some pretty hot bath-water
: Maybe a glass of red wine will help
: If I can't do some beading later today I think I need to spend some serious money on etsy, maybe that will make me feel better
: Sorry to everybody who reads this, I will be in a better mood another day

So whether I bead or shop - I will show you something later...... and sorry for the crappy mood...

So here are three more things that I made yesterday during my solder experiments - all messy I know, but remember I am learning..... Like any of those?

A wire-soldered turtle


One of my birds soldered on copper sheet




A copper pendant - heat patina'ed (I just love those colors)

(get prepared for a long post, but read it all the way to the end for a special giveaway)

It has only been a bit over a year since I came out here to blogland. Inspired by my friend Andrew, I felt I wanted to go beyond the pure beading at home. I wanted somebody to look at it and tell me if my stuff is ok, or not so ok. So I started my blog in June 2009, being pregnant, just back from vacation and shortly before going on maternity leave. Not know where all of this would go.

I was dying to have a comment in the beginning – which happened almost never, except some nice little words from Andrew. And then one day, I had one or two followers. They would come to my blog, comment and visit again and eventually become a follower.

Then about two month ago, I made a commitment to myself that I would increase my followers to 100 by September. Now since the bead soup party stopped, the follower-increase is stagnating again. Some of the people that I leave comments with frequently have never left me a note. Some others that I left a comment with for the first time come back to me right away and say thanks even by email. And some others that have been there from the beginning got lost along the way.

So while I was very focused on getting more followers, it is not the number on the counter that thrills me, but the comments that people leave from time to time. The heartfelt words that make me smile and make me feel I have a lot of friends out there. People I will most likely never meet. People I have not even seen on a photo in some cases.

So long story short. When I was thinking about this yesterday, I was also thinking about giveaways to attract more people. I could probably put some really cool giveaway out there (and I am still wondering if I should do it) and say that people have to become a follower to enter. But would that only increase my count and are those people really caring about my blog or only my giveaway? Or would it mean that once they are a follower, they would actually come back from time to time and occasionally read what I have to say, and then eventually turn into a friend?

So for now, my giveaway will be different. I will not give something to the people that blog about my giveaway or follow me or facebook or tweet. I will give something away to the people that have been true friends. The people that left comments, gave me support and actually made me feel like this blog is worthwhile to continue. So the 5 people that left the most comments on my blog will get a small gift from me. How did I choose my winners? I actually counted all the comments I got since I started this blog. 291 in total.

So the 5 people that have commented the most are
1) Cathryn of Chilecats – A true thank you Cathryn for your friendship
2) Second is Rebecca of Songbeads, my bead-soup-party-2 partner
3) Third is Lori of Pretty Things – our friendly bead soup party host
4) Stefanie of Stefanie's Sammelsurium came in fourth – she is the one that dragged me to all the solder stuff (thanks!)
5) Cindy of Sweet Bead Studio was fifth – who just picked me for a surprise giveaway


I know this is a giveaway that you did not decide yourself if you want to enter it or no. So I will go to your blogs and emails, leave you a note, and if you would like to receive one of those, please email me your snail mail address, and you will get one of my little wire-soldered birds, some Sari silk, and a few bead goodies. I know it is small, and they are by far not perfect, remember I am still learning. But they come from the heart :)

At the same time I would like to say sorry to those of you that I am leaving out, because you come here every day, but don’t leave me comments. And sorry for those who have not made it to the top list.



Thank you, ladies, for making this blog worthwhile for me, and sending me support and heartfelt words. I hope you will enjoy this little giveaway.

Dear non-comment followers, a word to you: I would love to hear your thoughts, even if they are not nice. Some advantage about the anonymity of the internet is that we can actually speak the truth, right? And if you have something nice to say, I will appreciate it even more. Come by my blog and have a cup of coffee or tea with me (or a glass of wine if you prefer) and stay for a while. And please leave me a note and tell me how you think about attracting followers or friends.

Ok it seems like I have a serious problem. Actually two. One is next to me caughing (aka Baby Girl), and the other one is upstairs sneezing (aka sick boyfriend). Both keep me from doing stuff with my beads and my solder. I am quite freaked out about it, because remember my commitment post and the three projects in one month? That month ends the 31st - today is July 24th and I have not started one single of them. Plus that post that I prepared about two weeks or so, and I just need to get a couple more items soldered and take pictures to put it live. But nothing will stop me today. You get the solder post later today, I promise.

I had better ones. But my baby seems to be ok again (she had a 40 degree C fever the last two days, which is about 104 in F). She was the reason why I had no time to blog nor play with my beads or my solder. And besides another (unfortunately by now very common) crisis going on, I got to do some hammering. Some of the pre-hammered items need to be soldered which I won't get done today, therefore I will not show them to you - they are reserved for a bigger and better post. But besides those secrets, here are some things I hammered. Like them?



















Oh and my beads from Marieke (Mariek Uniek) came in today. Those are so gorgeous. I can't stop looking at them. I bought the large green focal and this cool set of sand, blues and purples, and she sent me the other little green set as a gift ! Go buy something from her - you will sure love it.

... but I have won again. Sweetbead-Cindy was so kind to pick an additional winner for a surprise gift - and she picked: ME. I hope it is not true what they say, that if you are lucky with games, you are unlucky with love (at least they say that in my part of the world). Now I obviously can't wait to see that surprise. Surprises are the best, aren't they?
I also bought some drilled riverstones and wood beads from riverstonebead today, and some lovely lovely lampwork beads from Marieke. Will post pictures when they come in.
I prepared for some more soldering today, but could not get it finished, they day was too slow and short. We were supposed to have a BBQ with a friend, but the baby got sick, so we decided to head for a flea market instead, and went for a walk on the riverfront, followed by a visit of a beer garden afterwards (it's kind of an outdoor pub usually located in parks for those of you who don't know what a beer garden is).
Ok, will be back soon and show you what I soldered.....

I am so excited about this green giveaway Jen V from Jen Judd Rocks is hosting. We need to be thankful to her cat Brando (it was his idea). So hop over to her blog and enter.... or just leave her a note for the fun of it.

And the plant hospital!

Today I thought, what the heck, I will show you some of the things I tried to make yesterday that turned me into that very unhappy mood. You ladies are my friends and family, so I guess I need to get over my ideas of "perfect at first attempt" and get some honest feedback from you.
These are two pendants I made with fabric and copper sheet. I think they actually don't look that bad in the pictures, but when I touch them, I really see all the issues. I need to make them heavier, to give them a more rich feel - maybe I try glueing the fabric on some wood first.
What do you think? Be nice with me - I know the copper does not properly cover the fabric everywhere, something I need to work on, as well as the shapes in general. But those were only the first attempts.
Stay tuned, I show you some more tomorrow.